How to Attain Sincerety

Posted: October 5, 2008 by millatibraheem in Laa ilaha illAllaah

In The Name of Allaah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allaah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Indeed, sincerity to Allaah cannot be accomplished without knowledge. Knowledge is the first step for building character and personality. When a Muslim acquires knowledge he becomes capable to recognize how he should be devoted to Allaah. Sincerity means having no other goal in one’s life other than pleasing Allaah.

“Sincerity is achieved when Muslim brothers or sisters have the intention to please Allaah Almighty in all their endeavors whether in speech or action. The Muslim seeks generous rewards from Allaah Almighty without considering any other motives. He or she does not try to gain worldly favors in terms of self promotion or personal interests. In this way, the Muslim will always serve the Islamic faith and thought, rather than being subservient to short term benefits.

Hence, sincerity is the first key that opens the heart to receive the Mercy of Allaah Almighty. In fact the acceptance of one’s deeds depends on one’s purity of intention, which in turn depends on the level of sincerity in one’s heart. With sincerity, a person can attain the highest ranks in the Sight of Allaah Almighty, make the most of his/her deeds, and even be rewarded for righteous deeds that he or she was not able to perform.

On the other hand, without sincerity (which results from not taking care of the heart) a person may end up in Hell-Fire regardless of how righteous one’s deeds appear to be. What is the evidence for this statement?

1-Al-Hakim reported in Al-Mustadrak that Anas ibn Malik, may Allaah be pleased with him, quoted the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, as saying: “Whoever leaves this world with sincerity to Allaah Almighty, the One and Only, and performs the prayers and pays the Zakah will die in the pleasure of Allaah.” (Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

Imam Muslim narrated on the authority of Abu Hurairah, may Allaah be pleased with him, that the Messenger of Allaah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: “Three categories of people will be the first to be thrown into Hell-Fire: a scholar who taught people merely to be praised as a scholar; a generous person who gave charity just to be called generous; and a person who participates in Jihad to be recognized as brave.”

In order to avoid losing the rewards of our deeds, we should pay attention to our hearts in three stages:

Firstly, before starting to do anything, ask yourself: am I doing this to please Allaah Almighty and to seek His Forgiveness and reward, or am I doing it to impress people and seek their praise? If you have any doubt about the sincerity of that task, then you should renew your intention and free it from anything that would interfere with sincerity.

On the other hand, if it is sincere, you will feel ease and comfort deep in your heart, and therefore you should go ahead with that task with full confidence.

Secondly, while still engaged in a given task, a person may encounter interference from his vain desires or Satan. One may like to be seen while engaged in that task. There is nothing wrong with people seeing you while doing a task for the sake of Allaah Almighty. But if love of publicity and praise dominates one’s actions, then there is cause for concern because this may lead to the rejection of that deed by Allaah Almighty. A good indication of sincerity is the similarity of a person’s behavior in the presence of people and in their absence.

Thirdly, after completing an assignment or a job, do not continue to boast about your role in it. This feeling becomes particularly obvious if somebody wrongs you or someone is chosen for a position you were seeking, and you resort to hurting that person by defaming him. This course of action destroys your good deeds and will turn out to be detrimental to you.

Here are some criteria that indicate to us whether we are on the right track to sincerity and the pleasure of Allaah Almighty.

Signs of Sincerity

– To have good intentions before starting a task.
-Habits are changed by acts of worship
– To perfect one’s duty in private and in public.
– To dislike being praised by others, with the Du`aa: “O Allaah, forgive me for what they do not know about me, and make me better than what they think of me.”
– To welcome advice from friends.
– To not seek leadership and not nominate yourself for positions of authority.
– To be constantly mindful of one’s shortcomings, and to advise or wish others well.
– To feel that your contribution is minimal compared to others.
– To love performing the Fajr, Ishaa’, and night prayers.
– To prefer giving charity in secret.

These are some of the signs of sincerity (ikhlas). We therefore have to exert ourselves to achieve sincerity because it is a great loss to work hard and end up losing everything.

As for those with sincere hearts, they will attain the highest levels of Paradise. Allaah describes them: “Say: ‘Verily, I am commanded to serve Allaah with sincere devotion; and I am commanded to be the first of those who bow to Allaah in Islaam.” (Az-Zumar: 11-12).

Being the first of Muslims means realizing happiness in this world and the highest levels of Paradise in the Hereafter. Therefore make a solemn promise to Allaah to make your soul display sincerity, such that it becomes a natural part of your existence. In this way, we will possess the key to the heart, which subsequently makes our acts of worship a very pleasant experience. Only those who are endowed with this quality can feel its effect on the person.

Finally, I implore Allaah Almighty to make us among the sincere, who are mindful of Allaah without others knowing about it. The people with this characteristic perform their duties without others knowing who they are.

On the other hand, when they are absent, people don’t know much about them since they do not care about publicity. They are the keys to guidance whom Allaah uses to guide those who have gone astray.

We seek refuge with Allaah to save us from the vain desires of the soul and the temptations of Satan.”

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